The Weekly Hot Spot Catch Up Shows 86 through 92

Let’s do a recap and catch up on some recent Hot Spot Shows! Remember you can listen to past episodes on Talkshoe, and our show is brought to you by Provocatalk!

Show 86 was all about fantasies and why we think they are sexy. Have you ever enjoyed a fantasy? On the hot spot, . . . → Read More: The Weekly Hot Spot Catch Up Shows 86 through 92

The Strength Of Your Submission

There is Strength in your Submission

It may sound a little paradoxical to say the least, but there is actually a great deal of power and strength in submission.

Where is your strength? Right inside you, where it always is. Submissive power doesn’t always look like power. It may be about calm, competence, and . . . → Read More: The Strength Of Your Submission

Getting Clean Before We Get Dirty

The Art Of Preparation

Shower Your Way To Pleasure

There’s a lot to be said for being clean and smelling fresh before sex, but that isn’t the point of this post. Today let’s explore just how much of an erotic experience you can have in the bath before sex; consider it a private . . . → Read More: Getting Clean Before We Get Dirty

Get Your Kinky On With Phone Sex

Why not get your kinky on with Ms. Layla?

Are you Kinky?

It is an oft forgotten fact that we humans are the only species that enjoy sex for pleasure. Consider the clitoris….oh yes please! Pleasure is its sole purpose, and aren’t we lucky? Or at least we ladies are lucky. I only . . . → Read More: Get Your Kinky On With Phone Sex

BDSM Stereotypes

Embrace Your Kink!

There Isn’t One “Twue” Way

The other day I wrote about “Old Guard” BDSM over on The Pain Mistress.  That’s one of the stereotypes of BDSM.  During my early explorations in the scene and the lifestyle, I found that there were a lot of people who had certain opinions and . . . → Read More: BDSM Stereotypes

Training Your Sexual Brain

Healthy Sex Starts Upstairs

The old adage “sex happens between the ears” is so true!  We may be a visual lot but what our minds do with that visual is what really counts.

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How often do you find yourself derailed by your thoughts.  Everything’s great, you are . . . → Read More: Training Your Sexual Brain

Learning About Your Kink

You’re Not Defined By Your Kink

Instead, you should define your kink.  You can be a sissy, a cuckold, a cum-slut, or a stroker, but you shouldn’t allow others to define what those roles are.  Remember how last week I told you to act like sex is normal, and just have fun?  If you . . . → Read More: Learning About Your Kink

Sexual Healing Power

Sex…it feels good doesn’t it?  Did you know that regular sex, whether with a partner or

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yourself, has definite health benefits?  In fact, it can have the same benefits as regular exercise.  Now, given the choice between the treadmill and an intimate evening, I say let’s all get healthy the sexy . . . → Read More: Sexual Healing Power

Mindful Masturbation

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Being mindful enables us to be flexible and receptive and is a skill that can be developed by consciously and intentionally directing our thoughts and actions.  Mindful masturbation lets you direct your erotic intentions and expand your experiences and pleasure.  Over time, masturbation can become habitual and almost disembodied.  These exercises . . . → Read More: Mindful Masturbation

3 Ways to Boost Your Sexual Confidence

3 Ways to Boost Your Sexual Confidence

I have collected some tips to help you boost your sexual confidence. It can take time to feel like you have amazing sexual confidence, and the three tips below can help you increase just that so you feel better in and out of the bedroom!

Sexual Confidence

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